top of page
Resources
Patrick O'Connor
Oct 13, 2021
The Conflict Cycle
Pat O’Connor discusses how understanding your beliefs about conflict will help you address conflict more directly, with positive benefits...
Patrick O'Connor
May 12, 2021
The Lemonade Stand – Book Review
Click here to learn more about “The Lemonade Stand” by Ara Bagdasarian and Nick Gustavsson
Chelsea McKee-Trenchard
Apr 13, 2021
The Language of Appreciation
After a frustrating workday, I came home and described to my partner an encounter I had. “It’s like he’s saying ‘yadda, yadda’ and I’m...
Patrick O'Connor
Mar 10, 2021
Family Governance Primer and Reminder
Read the article Getting Started with Family Governance here.
Team Blackwood
Feb 9, 2021
Green Box Exercise
The “Green Box” is really a metaphor for a designated place to keep all your important planning documents so that people then know where...
Jennifer O'Connor
Dec 9, 2020
The Power of Board Games
Co-authored with Caitilin O'Connor The O’Connor family has always loved a good board game. During the pandemic, we find ourselves dusting...
Chelsea McKee-Trenchard
Aug 5, 2020
Do You Know Your Partner's Love Language?
There’s a funny joke that says 90% of being married is just shouting, ‘What?!’ from other rooms. While that’s funny, and perhaps slightly...
Chelsea McKee-Trenchard
Dec 5, 2019
Navigate Relationship Conflict With These Great Habits
When I was in my early twenties, I was attending university and still living at home. One day, my mother and I got into a screaming match...
Team Blackwood
Aug 31, 2019
Maintaining Strong Relations with Non-Active Sibling Shareholders
OVERVIEW A third-generation daughter engaged Blackwood to help increase alignment between she and her non-active sibling shareholders...
Team Blackwood
Oct 14, 2017
Generational Conflict When Transitioning Leadership Roles
OVERVIEW Blackwood was engaged by the members of a second-generation enterprising family with G2 in-laws presiding over respective...
Patrick O'Connor
Oct 1, 2017
Taking the Time to Teach: Raising Healthy Children Amid Affluence
A year ago I wrote about the challenges of raising “financially fit kids” and suggested a book written by Lee Hausner as a great...
Team Blackwood
Mar 1, 2017
Managing Competing Priorities
OVERVIEW An enterprising family was referred to Blackwood through the advice of their commercial banker. The matriarch and patriarch of...
Patrick O'Connor
Jan 24, 2017
Decisions, Decisions: Career Choices
14 years ago when I was faced with a critical decision on making a major career change, I was looking for a tool to help me get clarity...
Caitilin O'Connor
Aug 27, 2014
It's All Relative
My name is Caitilin O’Connor and I am the newest employee of Blackwood Family Enterprise Services; I’m also the daughter of Patrick...
bottom of page